THE “DO NOT PLAY” LIST - IT’S A THING!
The “Do Not Play” List — Yep, That’s a Thing (From Me to You)
Every wedding is totally unique — and that’s exactly how I like it. When you book me, you get full control over your evening playlist. And more importantly: what doesn’t get played. Because some tunes? They just don’t belong at your celebration.
What “Cheesy Wedding DJ Stereotype” people think I’m all about
There’s a common assumption that wedding DJs are destined to dish up “cheesy” songs, night after night. You know — the overplayed cringe classics that make some guests roll their eyes, and others wonder why they’re there. Maybe you’ve even heard yourself think: “Please — not another Macarena / Superman / Agadoo!”
First off… nope. That stereotype? Not what I’m about.
Sure — I’ve played a lot of music over the years (been doing this since the late 80s), but I don’t believe in pushing songs just because “that’s what weddings do.”
Yes, there are songs that have earned their “classic” status — the tracks that consistently get people on the floor. But classics =/= cheese. What makes the difference is context… and more importantly, your crowd, your vibe, and your wishes
That’s why I give you a “Do Not Play” list — and I mean it
When we work together, you get access to my online planning system. Amongst the tools and playlist planner… there’s a “Do Not Play” list.
This is where you take control. Not me. Not your Great Uncle who always wants to hear “that song”. Not the drunk cousin demanding 80s hits. You.
Drop in the songs, genres, or vibes you don’t want. Those tracks stay banned — no matter how many times they get requested on the night. The only way they go back on? If you tell me “OK”.
I get it. There are a hundred reasons couples ask for a ban.
- Maybe a song reminds you of someone you lost.
- Maybe it belongs to a past relationship you’ve moved on from.
- Maybe it simply gives you the shudders — and that’s enough reason.
Whatever it is: you don’t need to justify it. You say no — I honour it. No questions. No side‑eye. Just respect.
Why this matters more than you think
Weddings — and especially wedding receptions — are as much emotional as they are celebratory. Music carries memories and feelings. That track you hate might have been the soundtrack to an awkward period. That “fun classic” might trigger memories you don’t want at your happiest day.
I’m not just about DJing. I’m about creating an experience that feels totally right for you and your people.
By giving you the “Do Not Play” power:
- You get peace of mind — no surprise cringe‑worthy requests.
- You can relax, knowing your wedding soundtrack respects your boundaries.
- Your guests still get to dance, laugh, sing — but in a way that feels genuine, not forced.
What if you do want a guaranteed floor‑filler playlist?
That’s fine too. You’re not limited, you’re just in charge. Maybe you love a few “classics” and want them in — no problem. As long as they’re not on your “Do Not Play” list, they go in.
And if you want something totally different — maybe a mix of indie, soul, 90s throwbacks, or modern bangers — I’m game. I build the party to match your vibe, your guests, and your story.
My Promise To You
If you ask something NOT to be played — it doesn’t get played. Period.
When you hire me, you’re not hiring a “plug‑in‑and‑play” DJ. You’re hiring someone who respects what matters to you. Someone who listens, adapts, and cares about your celebration almost as much as you do.
Because at the end of the day, your wedding isn’t about me. It’s about you. And I’m just here to soundtrack your happiest memories — on your terms.
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I’d love to have a chat about your wedding plans to help make your day flow as effortlessly as possible